Relationships are hard. This is something that I seem to be learning more and more everyday. People change, and so must a relationship. What worked 3 years ago might not fly now. Dan and I have been slowly getting into a little relationship rut. We've been holding things back, and not communicating much. It seemed to be working for a while - until today.
We had a HUGE blowup.
I know that all couples have arguments. But this one was so bad that even the cats hid! Yikes. I won't air all the details out on here, because I personally don't feel like the Internet is a place for personal issues. However, we both agreed that its gotten so bad around here that we both feel like we're just living together and not in a relationship. That's not what either of us want to feel after almost 7 years of loving each other. So, we decided that tomorrow we "start over". We are going to work hard, and continue working hard, so that things can be how we want them to be. We also have a lot of work to do on ourselves for this to work. We both have a positive outlook on this - so that's a plus already :)
On a side note: What is it about country music that your automatically drawn to it when things aren't going exactly how you want them to be? It's all I've been listening to for the past 2 hours.
